Thursday, July 12, 2007

Seven O'Seven

nathaniel david, lily constance, hannah jane

ramparts red glare

breakfast of champions

carpet padding valentine

inspiration vs. boredom

screening all the live long day

daddy's paycheck

a million stories

birthday guests
nathaniel david, lily constance, hannah jane

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

The blue sky gets a little bluer

Several months back, my friend Andy invited me to join him and some friends to see Wilco at the Murat theatre in Indianapolis for the bands June 15th show. After much deliberation and a gentle nudge from my wife, I accepted my friend's invitation. This would be my third time hearing and seeing Jeff Tweedy and company live since attending Wilco's Rockfor Riley benefit show at the Murat back in the Fall of 2005 with my friend Chris. It need not be said that I was greatly anticipating this show, especially after enjoying the bands May 2007 release Sky Blue Sky on multiple listens. I was all prepared to set a course for downtown Indy after work where I was to meet up with Andy and some of his friends at McNiven's Pub for a couple of drinks before the the show. Then came the call at 8:30 the morning of the show.

Andy had been listening to 92.3 WTTS while driving to a meeting and called in with the answer to the "morning music mindbender" winning two front row tickets to the Wilco show and passes to their soundcheck that afternoon. I could go on about the details which comprised the rest of the day's events, but I'll just say that I had the great privilege of enjoying some great live music by one of the most incredible rock outfits on the planet. During the soundcheck about twenty five of us got to hear performances of "Ashes of American Flags," "Hell Is Chrome" and the live rarity "A Magazine Called Sunset." During the soundcheck, Jeff Tweedy addressed the crowd saying, "So you guys won some kind of contest?" I shouted, "My friend did!" Immediately, he fell to the ground while grabbing his sides and laughed hystericallyuntil he could finally bring himself back to his feet to continue with the soundcheck... at least that's how I remember it.

After the soundcheck, the guys in the band met us all out in the lobby to sign cds, pose for snapshots and say hi. They honestly couldn't have been more pleasant. I had couple cds on me which Jeff Tweedy, Glenn Kotche, Nels Cline and John Stirratt each signed. I was thinking about what a strange relationship exists between a band and their fans. Through art and media, the public have a small window into their lives and we come to rock shows to be a part of their art and somehow share in their experience. In some small way, we know who these people are and what their lives are like, but they don't really have the same opportunity to know all of these people who come out to their shows and buy their records. Even though we've never met, I'm shaking hands with Mr. Tweedy saying hello to him and calling him Jeff because I feel like I kinda know him after listening to all of his records and reading about his life in a book. It's strange. I know this isn't some kind of new revelation, but I've never really had the opportunity to consider this relational dynamic at this level before. I guess I'm really just making this point to say that the guys fromWilco seemed to address this odd relationship with as much respect and gratuity as anyone could. The whole experience was a rare treat which allowed me to feel a bit more connected during the concert that night to these guys who have wooed and inspired me with their music.

Thanks again Andy.

Wilco
Murat Theatre
Indianapolis, IN
June 15, 200

Setlist:
1. A Shot In the Arm
2. Side with the Seeds
3. You Are My Face
4. I Am Trying to Break Your Heart
5. Kamera
6. Handshake Drugs
7. War on War
8. Impossible Germany
9. Sky Blue Sky
10. Jesus, Etc.
11. Hate It Here
12. Walken
13. Shake It Off
14. I'm the Man Who Loves You
15. Hummingbird

(Encore 1)
16. Sunken Treasure
17. Spiders (Kidsmoke)

(Encore 2)
18. Heavy Metal Drummer
19. Outtasite (Outta Mind)
20. California Stars

Monday, June 18, 2007

Silver haired daddy of mine

My father is an incredible man who has taught me the value and honor of quiet humility. He is a teacher, a servant, a husband and a father. He is a brother and a son and a friend who listens and counsels without judgment. He is 56 years of age and has returned to school to study Church history, theology and Hebrew among other subjects while embarking on a new chapter of life. He can still sink a three pointer and run up and down a basketball court alongside 20-something punks and put them to shame. I look at the photo above all washed over time in shades of ocher and umber and I see the same joy and love in that new father's eyes as I see thirty years later. I don't believe I've ever been left to wonder whether my father has loved me. As I anticipate fatherhood, I hope to be half the father that mine has been.

Cheers Dad!

Download:
MP3:
Johnny Cash :: Silver Haired Daddy of Mine
MP3: Glen Phillips :: Have a Little Fun with Me
MP3: Cat Stevens :: Father and Son
MP3: Bill Mallonee & Vigilantes of Love :: Every Father Knows

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

With all the honesty I can muster

On Saturday evening I attended the high school graduation of my good friend, fellow Pilot and The Mustard Room patron Ryan 'Shamous' Helvie. In the three and a half years which I spent as youth ministry equipper at center grove church, my relationship with Ryan had been one of those which had been rife with honesty and restless pursuit of genuine faith. In many ways, Ryan reminded me of myself when I was his age, but he also showed maturity well beyond his years. Though he grew up in the church with parents who deeply loved and cared for him, he would not allow himself to simply ignore questions of faith which kept him awake at night. He constantly expressed a desire to experience the gospel message which other's seemed to be content simply discussing. From the time I've known him as an eighth grade student, we have shared a friendship of openness which has helped to shape both of us into who we are today.

Although my wife and I have had similar relationships with other students who continue to enrich our lives today, I bring special attention to Mr. Helvie today because he has always proven to bend to no one else's expectations of who he should be - for better or for worse. Even as he graduates from high school, he sets out to spend his Summer away from the family and friends whom he loves so dearly to be a counselor at Camp Grier in North Carolina. After the graduation ceremonies and dinner with Ryan's family and a few friends, Andrew Furrow and I spent a couple of hours in the Helvie's family room enjoying some good conversation with our friend before saying goodbye for the Summer. One of the most difficult yet rewarding characteristics of the strange animal I've known as 'youth ministry' has been watching kids grow into young adults and follow the voice of God away from their homes as they sojourn into the unknown.

On a lighter note, here is Shamous' stark review of an album I promised but never released as well as an amazing piece of impromptu audio by our good friend. Enjoy.

Hey this is Shamous and...


I’m not going to lie, after a series of bribes involving large quantities of the beverage which shall forthwith be referred to as the, “Coops” I’ve been talked into writing a review for Broken Record’s newest release by Joel Rockey, Marquette®. Even though I said I wasn’t going to lie at the beginning of this paragraph; I already have. No; I wasn’t bribed with coops (nobody has a large enough supply of the drink), in fact nobody even remotely asked me to write a review, I’ll even go so far as to say that if the guys at Broken Records knew about this piece of literature (and they don’t) they’d do everything in their power to prevent it from reaching The Mustard Room. But, Shamous is gonna do what Shamous is gonna do so pick up the phone it’s me, you. Anyway I’d like to pause for a brief moment and stab myself in the thigh with a rather sharp kitchen utensil and then re-gather my thoughts.


Alright, where was I? Oh yes, Marquette®, the latest installment in the plethora of Joel Rockey’s albums. First off, I love this record, the way the raging down-tuned guitars simply scream over the ferocious pounding and beating of drums all the while backing howling vocals of pain is simply head-banging, weight lifting, coops drinking music.This deadly record is definitely more ticked off, hungry, and a heck of a lot angrier than any previous works, and is topped off with a heavy dose of brutality, all served up by coops driven mad men like Joel, whose goal is as with every record to use music as weapon of sonic destruction.


Thus, I’ve lied again and in doing so destroyed the new record’s image with this review; I don’t know what got into me, I may have consumed to many of the beverage now known as coops, Sorry. Truth is, I’ve never heard the album but I’m sure I haven’t done it justice with this review so just disregard this whole thing and I’ll leave you with this quote which includes a large amount hip-hop slang--“ Not all dorks have this haircut but only dorks have this haircut."

With all the honesty I can muster,

Shamous

Monday, May 21, 2007

An aural supplement, episode 5

Running Time: 58:14 | File Size 54 MB
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It's May and the thoughts of those around the Rockey home turn to those of fancy. Three is the magic number, but I hear the good Lord gives no more than we can handle. So kiss your mama and fire up the blinky, it's another day trippin' episode of your friendly interweb DJ e-spinnin' tunes both old and new for the very few who was askin'.

1. De La Soul “The Magic Number”
2.
Le Switch “Tongue Tied ”
3.
Feist “1234”
4.
A Tribe Called Quest “Jazz (We've Got)”
5.
The Kinks “Village Green”
6.
Meiko Kaji “Urami Bushi”
7.
Garrison Keillor & Jearlyn Steele “Coffee Jingle”
8.
Howard Tate “8 Days on the Road”
9.
Neko Case “Things That Scare Me”
10.
Shirtless Biddles “Mamie”
11.
Young MC “Know How”
12.
Sergio Mendes & Brasil '66 “Day Tripper”
13.
Groucho Marx “Excellent Chances”
14.
Arcade Fire “Intervention”
15.
X “The New World”
16.
Bobby Fuller Four “I Fought the Law”
17.
Wilco “Hate It Here”
18.
The Who “Two Thousand Years”

Monday, May 14, 2007

Sunday, May 13, 2007

The mother load

This photo of my mother and I has always been a favorite of mine. I don't necessarily know why. I find myself staring into the eyes of that little being wondering what it must have been like for my mother to hold her first born child. Did she wonder even then what would become of this tiny life whom she carried inside her body for months? I'm sure there were plenty of times later in life when she longed for those days when she could just wrap me up and hold me in her arms. I spent lunch this mother's day around my grandmother's dining room table with my brother and my wife. I've been fortunate to have some amazing women in my life who have loved me and who have taught me to love: My mother, my wife, my grandmother who suffers through her alzheimer's inflicted husband, my grandmother whose passionate faith and love for her family have not been dampened by death, my mother-in-law. Where would I be without these women? I'd be nowhere... and I'd be there without clean underwear.

Here's to you moms!

Download:
MP3:
Paul Simon :: Mother and Child Reunion
MP3: The White Stripes :: I Want to be the Boy to Warm Your Mother's Heart
MP3: Gillian Welch :: I Had a Real Good Mother and Father
MP3: Ben Harper & The Blind Boys of Alabama :: Mother Pray

Friday, May 4, 2007

The fly cassanova

I was recently digging through the archives in search of tracks for inclusion on the next volume of If Awesome Were a Compact Disc. It gave me the long overdue opportunity to revisit the quintessential hip-hop album of my youth, Stone Cold Rhymin' by Marvin Young (aka Young MC).

Somewhere between my 8th grade and freshman year in high school, I had dubbed a copy of Stone Cold from my friend Eric's cassette tape of the album. During a day when misogynistic lyrics and gangsta rap were becoming the preferred listening of midwestern white boys, the infectious grooves of songs like 'I Come Off,' 'Roll with the Punches' and the radio hit 'Bust a Move' helped protect my innocence and kept me young (pun very much intended). Young's lyrics were fun and often a bit goofy ("with the funky fresh rhymes comin' outta my gizzard,") but they rolled across 70's funk samples and bass lines provided by the likes of Red Hot Chili Peppers' Flea in such a way that would have my head bobbing long after the groove was over. I would often show off my own skills by reciting the album's 50 second track "Fastest Rhyme" for friends. I'd like to say it won over quite a few ladies. I'd like to say it, but the claim really wouldn't hold much water.

Though he won a Grammy for his hit "Bust a Move" and co-wrote hits such as "Wild Thing" and "Funky Cold Medina" for Tone Loc, Young MC never really produced anything of acclaim after the success of Stone Cold Rhymin'. Seventeen years later, I'm listening to this gem from my youth over and over in my car and I'm unashamed of the funky fresh rhymes coming out of my own gizzard. I am ashamed however that I just typed that sentence.


Monday, April 30, 2007

Do you like penguins?

My wife and I spent Sunday evening catching up with our friend Elisa on the southside of Broad Ripple. We spent a good deal of our time together taking advantage of the beautiful Spring weather while talking about ice cream, enjoying ice cream and talking about enjoying ice cream all before I passed out on Elisa's couch... not from the ice cream, mind you, but from the sheer lack of sleep the previous night before opening up shop at the S*Bux that morning.

While chilling out, maxing, relaxing all cool with the girls outside the Dairy Queen, Elisa shared a story with us about a trip that the school her sister teaches at took to the aquarium in Chicago. When the class was through with their visit and boarded the bus to return to school, several students began giggling at a young teenage boy with autism as his ever-present backpack began sloshing back and forth. Upon hearing the commotion from the back of the bus, one of the teachers apprehended the backpack to investigate. What do you suppose this teacher found in the boys backpack? Nothing but a small penguin. I don't know what I was expecting to be in that backpack, but I'll tell you a penguin wasn't even in my top five guesses. All I can say is 'bravo!' I've never heard of a young boy with autism kidnapping a penguin from an aquarium before. Maybe I just don't get out much. Anyways, it just goes to show that people are mad about penguins. I suspect that the young lad was trying to rescue the tiny penguin in hopes that he might return to his arctic homeland and lead his brethren in a dance what might restore peace and harmony to the planet earth.

Speaking of penguins, I saw this parody of Dora the Explorer on Saturday Night Live again on Saturday evening. If you've ever been subjected to numerous episodes of Miss Dora, you'll no doubt find this cartoon as hilarious as my wife and I did.

Funkin' up the bean cup

On Saturday night, Flying J & The Pilots performed with two thirds of Shirtless Biddles at The Bean Cup Coffee Shop in Indianapolis. This was the first time the Biddles and Pilots shared a venue and we are looking forward to this collision of acoustic musical acts happening often in the future. For those of you who missed it, your next chance to catch the Pilots and Biddles together will be at The Strange Brew Coffee Shop in Greenwood, Indiana on June 29th, 2007. Be thar!

Monday, April 23, 2007

Pilots, beans and biddles

Another night of booty-shakin' soul-awakin' musical frivolity is on the horizon. Flying J & the Pilots will be joining Shirtless Biddles at The Bean Cup (8908 South Saint Peter Street, Indianapolis, Indiana 46227) this Saturday, April 28th at 7pm. The Bean Cup is a new coffee shop just north of the Greenwood Park Mall off of County Line Road. Saint Peter Street sits right between the Sparkling Image car wash and the building previously occupied by Guitars & More.

If you happen to be in the area, hop on over and support some local musicians and a new locally owned coffee house.

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MP3:
Flying J & the Pilots :: Thru and Thru
MP3: Shirtless Biddles :: Mamie

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

An aural supplement, episode 4

Running Time: 1:00:41 | File Size 56 MB
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Flowin' like a harpoon daily and nightly is expected around the Rockey home. This week your host takes you on a tour with the super ghetto british spy pimp on a quest for revenge across the spaghetti midwest at the end of the summer of love. Stare into the eyes of the Diamond and lose yourself. Grrrrowl.

1. Herb Alpert & The Tijuana Brass “Casino Royale Theme”
2.
Neil Diamond “We”
3.
The Avett Brothers “Will You Return?”
4.
Brandi Carlile “The Story”
5.
Neil Young “A Man Needs a Maid/Heart of Gold Suite”
6.
Gob Iron “Silicosis Blues”
7.
James Brown “Down and Out in New York City”
8.
T.Rex “Planet Queen (Acoustic Version)”
9.
16 Horsepower “Single Girl”
10.
Bill Mallonee “After All This Dust Settles Down”
11.
Ben Kweller “Penny on a Train Track”
12.
Ben Harper “Show Me a Little Shame”
13.
Steve Martin “Hostages”
14.
Charlie Feathers “Can't Hardly Stand It”
15.
Ani DiFranco “Subconscious”
16.
The Kingston Trio “Greenback Dollar”
17.
The Greenhornes w/ Holly Golightly “There is an End”

Thursday, April 5, 2007

It started with a bean

It started with young boy and his dream to take Karate... not from the Y, but from a good school. That boy was Daniel LaRusso, his school was a small Okinawan named Miyagi and it is the greatest music sharing club ever known. My brother Jeremy and I--along with every other 2o-something/ 30-something man--have often found common ground in recalling the tales of these and other underdog characters from the films of our childhood. When off-hand phrases such as "Don't know, first time," and "Look at the chicken, he's wild!" are spoken among those who know of their original context, a bond is shared between the parties which unfamiliar bystanders simply cannot understand.

The songs of these films are an important piece of this tapestry of nostalgia. Though often horribly trite, these songs are enjoyed endlessly by those who recall their visual counterparts from these moments in cinematic mediocrity. They have become a shared piece of history among those who have found themselves on the edge of their seat and fighting back tears as they root for Daniel LaRusso, Rocky Balboa and Scott Howard for the thirty-second time as if it were the first. Here's to the underdog!

Many of these songs have spawned a music sharing club affectionately referred to as "If Awesome Were a Compact Disc" among my Starbucks brethren. We have found a commonality beyond the coffee bean which employs us in the music of our past. It has come to serve as a shared thread linking us to one anothers' histories. And to think, it all started with a bean. The coffee bean, you may ponder? Perhaps. Or was it rather Joe 'Bean' Esposito?